The childcare decision every parent faces
Whether you’re returning to work, need occasional date-night help, or just want an extra pair of trusted hands, finding the right nanny or babysitter is one of the biggest choices you’ll make as a parent. Beyond resumes and references, it’s about finding someone who feels like an extension of your family.
In South Florida, where many families juggle demanding schedules and vibrant community lives, childcare support can be a lifesaver. But how do you know who’s the right fit? Start with the right questions.
7 questions every parent should ask
1. What experience do you have with children my child’s age?
An amazing toddler nanny may not be the best fit for a newborn. Ask about specific age experience, from diapering infants to helping with schoolwork for older kids.
2. How do you handle emergencies?
Look for candidates trained in CPR and first aid. Ask for real examples of how they’ve handled tough situations, like fevers, injuries, or household mishaps.
3. What’s your approach to discipline?
Every family has a different style gentle parenting, firm boundaries, or a mix. Make sure their approach aligns with yours.
4. How do you keep kids engaged?
Great caregivers don’t just “watch” kids; they play, teach, and inspire. Ask about favorite activities crafts, outdoor play, storytime, music and look for enthusiasm.
5. Are you comfortable with household expectations?
Some families want help with light chores, meal prep, or driving kids to activities. Be clear upfront so there are no surprises later.
6. Can you provide references?
Always follow up with at least two references. Ask those parents what they loved, what could have been better, and whether they’d hire the caregiver again.
7. What are your expectations around pay and schedule?
Money talk can feel awkward, but clarity is kindness. Discuss hourly rates, overtime, vacation, and holiday expectations at the beginning.
Tips for South Florida families
- Many local parents find trusted caregivers through community Facebook groups, neighborhood boards, and vetted agencies listed on WonderKids Marketplace.
- In a bilingual region, some families value caregivers who can introduce children to a second language Spanish, Haitian Creole, or Portuguese.
- With year-round sunshine, caregivers who love outdoor play are a huge plus!
2 Comments
Mila
The way I stared was asking my close friends for recommendations and in moms group chats. That way you arent the first one trying the nanny out and you know someone who has actually tried her 🙂
Arnaud
When we first started looking for a babysitter, I had no idea what to ask beyond availability and pay. Later I realized how important it is to ask about their approach to discipline and how they handle emergencies. Those are the moments that really matter when you’re trusting someone with your kids.